Purity
February 19, 2012
Today we are talking about the commitment of purity in marriage. We'll learn how secrecy is the enemy of intimacy and that shame separates us from God and others. The Bible gives us clear instruction on how to move out of the darkness and live in the light.
Verses: Genesis 2:24-25, 3:7-10, Ephesians 5:8-14
Home study
- Why did Adam hide when he realized his nakedness in Genesis 2?
- Do you have a time where you did something or someone did something to you and you felt shame and hid?
- Reflect on the key thought: Wherever secrets live, intimacy dies. How have you experienced this to be true in your relationships with others and with God?
- What has been the most difficult confession you have had to "receive with grace?"
Reading plan: M-Eph. 5:8-10; Tu-I Thes. 4:3, 7-8; W-I Cor. 6:18-20; Th-I Peter 1:14-16; F-I Tim. 4:11-12; Sa- 2 Cor. 6:6-7, Su-Col. 3:1, 4-5
Past
February 12, 2012
Today we're talking about the past and specifically how to navigate conflict in relationships in a way that leads to resolution. Even though all couples face conflict, the ones with good relationships will press toward resolution. They'll be united, not untied.
Verses: Proverbs 27:15, Song of Solomon 5:2-6, Romans 12:21
Home study
- Which source of conflict resonates most with you? (expectations, selfishness, pride)
- When it comes to conflict, how do you normally respond? (act or react, talk or walk, focus on good or bad)
- What relationships in your life have conflict? What is one thing you can do this week to improve the relationship?
Reading plan: M-1 John 4:16, 4:20-21, Tu-1 Cor. 13:1-3, W-Psalm 100:3, 100:5, Th-1 John 4:8-9, 4:11, F-1 John 3:16-18, Sa-Pro. 10:11-12, Su-John 13:34-35
Priorities
February 5, 2012
What are the priorities in your life today - work, kids, money, hobbies, self? The Bible has something to say about priorities and marriage, and it starts with a growing relationship with God.
Verses: Matthew 22:37-39, Genesis 2:24-25, Ephesians 5:21-33
Home study
- What would you rank as the top 5 priorities in your life?
- What would it look like to make God the #1 priority in your life? What is one step you can take to make that a reality?
- What would it look like to make your spouse the #2 priority in your life? What is one step you can take to make that a reality?
I Still Do series
God has a big dream and intentional design for your marriage. It is to reflect His purpose for us. In this series, we'll learn how to set the right priorities in our relationships, move beyond our past, guard against misplaced passions, and get the practical tools to have a marriage that honors God.
Expectations
January 29, 2012
Today we are going to talk about ridiculous expectations and specifically how to pray ridiculous prayers. Because normal people pray normal prayers. God has more for us than normal. So as you pray, think about this: what you pray for reflects what you believe about God.
Obedience
January 22, 2012
Most people choose their own way. They're normal, and end up with only normal experiences. God wants you to obey Him unconditionally and experience amazing works in your life. The only way to that kind of ridiculous obedience requires a relationship with Him.
Desire
January 15, 2012
It may seem ridiculous to chase God's desires, but that is exactly what He wants. Normal is to only follow your own desires. Instead, let's be ridiculous. Let's seek God until His desires become our desires.
